BDSM is more than four letters to me, it is an expansion of human connection and experience. It goes beyond the physical, the mental and the emotional. I consider BDSM to be an expanded version of sexuality that allows us to express ourselves without judgement and without the conventional restraints of normal parameters or limitations- I have always found myself outside the box and the older I have gotten the more expansion I have craved. Although I can sometimes play the typical “cruel bitch” you might find in BDSM porn, you won’t find me to be one dimensional because my kink play is not an act, it is an expression and an art form.
When you step into my dungeon you will leave your responsibility and accountability at the door; My gift to you is to handle everything for you. I understand how exhausting it can be to have to manage what feel like the entire the entire world and to have to stay on top of it all constantly- Updates need to be launched, people need to be managed, it never ends. For just a few hours when you are with me you get to let that all fade away. I am someone who is detail focused and control oriented, rest assured- You’re safe in my hands.
My Approach to BDSM
I am a true BDSM life styler- What I do is what I do and because of that you’ll find a sparkle in my eye and layer of creativity and excitement you likely won’t have found elsewhere. Despite the best efforts of most other professionals what you can’t train into yourself is passion and all the practice in the world can’t make you love something that isn’t inherently born into you. I grew up weird and for me BDSM and D/s are an outlet, as the hipsters say “I did it before it was cool.” I put myself into everything I do 150% percent and I give my all, I live in the moment and I encourage others to do the same. I hope it has a positive impact on you when you’re with me. Being a seattle dominatrix is more than a once faceted thing for me, it is so much more than meets the eye.
Approach to Dominance
Dominance is very fluid and natural for me, I do not feel like I need to be forceful with my nature to put you in your place. However, that doesn’t mean that I won’t be rough or forceful when I feel like it or when it sounds like fun just that my nature isn’t gruff or prickly. Initially I’m very hostess-like in my welcoming rituals and you might find me to down right sweet, if a bit intimidating. Depending on your personality I will change my approach and become more suited to you. After all, a hunter has to stalk her prey based on their movements. Isn’t that right?