Explore Kink; Lessons

So, you’re curious about learning how to play safely, effectively and well. I can help with that! Whether you’re looking to top, bottom, switch, learn new skills or polish old ones I am always happy to share my knowledge.

What I Teach

First, I suggest checking out my Skills Page, Activities Page and My Fantasy Ideas Page for ideas of what I know and what I’m good at. That being said, those lists are not conclusive so if you’re interested in something that isn’t listed, feel free to contact me. Primarily, I consider myself a “connection player” and by that I mean my style of play drastically changes from person to person; No two people are the same, therefor no two connections are the same and they shouldn’t be because that is no fun.

Dominant Lessons

So, you want to be in control. I would be happy to guide you on that journey, answer any questions you may have and inspire new ones within you. My skills range from a comprehensive understanding of human anatomy to how to tie a slew of useful knots and beyond.

With domination there is a very fine line between breaking limits and pushing them, I can teach you the nuances of how to navigate these complexities. If you want to do “everything you want” you have to find a play partner who has the same interests, finding a good play partner is all about figuring out how to carry out these negotiations. If you just force your desires on to someone, that is bordering on assault or even abuse (which is NOT BDSM.) BDSM is a very pure form of energy exchange in the regard that you are often pushing people to do things that are physically, mentally and emotionally difficult. The role of being dominant is NOT something to be taken lightly and it requires a certain level of commitment to the submissive person that you will help put them back together after playing with them.

50 Shades and porn websites are not an accurate representation of BDSM or BDSM relationships. There is a lot of negotiation (verbal and otherwise) that has to go on in order to make sure that everyone is participating of their own freewill. I can show you this and much more.

I am happy to provide a submissive of your choice or you are welcome to bring your own.

Submissive Lessons

Couples Lessons

You’ve been wanting to explore kink for a while or maybe it’s just a new desire. Either way, you want to share it with your lover. Maybe you just need someone to help you both get excited about something new or maybe you just need some words of encouragement and a skilled hand to help you on your way.

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